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The Success Solution: Recently I worked
with a client who found himself in a couple of situations many of
us have either experienced, or fear experiencing.
He called me, feeling down, frustrated and anxious about
his future. In the
same week, he was laid off at work and experienced the end of a
six-year relationship. Ouch! As we explored his
situation, we discovered a couple of things.
First, he really didn’t like his job and it was not
leading him towards the financial success he desired.
And second, the relationship that ended was an unhappy one
for quite some time. Yet, he wanted to hold on to both of them and felt upset over
what had occurred. You see, many of
us find ourselves in similar situations in life.
We have something that isn’t quite what we want, but
if we were to lose it great fear and insecurity arises. Why? There are two forces
that drive your life and prevent you from really having what you
desire: Attachments and aversions. We become attached
to what is comfortable for us; things that give us a false sense
of having what we want; things that temporarily make us feel better
for brief moments only to leave us feeling rotten later.
These attachments can include unfulfilling jobs, relationships
that lack passion, bad habits such as smoking or overeating, and
thousands of other possibilities. Our attachments often
prevent us from making the space in our life to have what we really
desire. If life is
a buffet, we have our plates full of food we don’t really
like meaning there isn’t any room for dessert. Hanging on to that
unfulfilling job for its false sense of security prevented this
man from finding work he feels excited about doing – or starting
a business of his own. His
attachment to the mediocre relationship prevented him from exploring
new possibilities and meeting someone who really loved him, and
someone he really loved in turn. We he saw this for
himself, his energy took a dramatic turn in the positive direction.
He saw new opportunity in his life instead of fear and loss. This one simple realization could likely change the course
of his entire life. We also have aversions.
These are the things in life that feel uncomfortable to us.
It could be making an important phone call, or asking out
someone we are really attracted to, or getting in front of a room
and sharing our brilliance.
Aversions prevent us from moving forward, taking action and
manifesting what we desire.
Aversions prevent you from acting on your immense potential. What are attachments
and aversions and how can we overcome them? Attachments and aversions
are nothing more than feelings.
Many of us say “I am frustrated”, but the truth
is “I feel frustrated”. I am having a feeling; I am not the feeling. There is a wonderful
technique called the Sedona Method that teaches a simple set of
techniques that allow us to effortlessly “let go” of
any unwanted thought or feeling – any attachment or aversion.
With these blocks removed, you will feel more confidence,
more at ease and more willing to take the bold actions that produce
success. Or we can learn to
easily overcome the resistance that creates a flow to life.
When we overcome our attachments and aversions, we become
truly free to be, do and have whatever we desire.
It’s easy. It
really is. I encourage you to
learn more about any program that teaches you to “let go”.
It is the most powerful personal development tool I have
ever learned. My favorite
program on the market is the Sedona Method course – the original
and still the best program of its kind.
The link below offers a free newsletter to learn more, and
you can also order a free introductory tape that includes a demonstration
of one of the basic releasing techniques they teach.
I encourage you to experience this program for yourself and
discover the exhilarating possibility of true freedom from your
attachments and aversions. Wishing you all the
success and abundance you can allow into your life, John R. Barker To learn more about
the Sedona Method Program,
click here. John R. Barker is a personal success coach, author and facilitator of The Amazing Momentum Generator – a 35 day program for creating powerful results that last a lifetime. To learn more about John, see http://www.getSynergized.com Subscribe to Magnetic News!
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