People who are single who desire to appreciate the Law of Attraction to find love sometimes ask me for advice. These people wonder, “Can you attract the wrong relationship?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I’ll explain. You attract the “Wrong” relationship based on what it is you say you desire. That is, your positive thoughts are saying “I want someone who is fun, loving, and passionate. Someone who will treat me well” and your dominant expectation is something more to the tune of … “I can never meet the correct woman.
Why do my friends have such an easy route? What is wrong with me? Where are all of the eligible right for me women? And so on. So you’re going to end up attracting more about what you’re unconsciously desiring and expecting. So is she wrong? Perhaps, is your thought pattern wrong? The Law of Attraction states what you focus on you attain more of. So if you are single and are looking for a relationship, you must focus on what it is like to be in love, not the opposite.
A proven exercise to strengthen your inherent desires on this is by wielding a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You can use this tool when you find you have some negative emotion and need to keep shifting your vibration and find a more harmonious feeling mindset. When you want to strengthen your threshold of creation because you have got some negative vibrations. Here’s how it works: you should do this with paper and pencil to get the hang of it. I really suggest that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You will wish to set aside at least 15 minutes for this process.
At the top of the paper write the area of what you want a more harmonious energy set point on. Perhaps a subject has caught your attention that you do not desire, you’d rather not experience it, or perhaps you have got a good bit of judgment about it and resent yourself for it. Write down what that is. Now see that you know what you do not want and the comparison has aided you to hone the intention of what you actually want. Your task is to put down in detail you want. And continue turning your attention to the better feeling desire.
Put down lists of what you like about what IS working, what you love, what you have that you DO like, even about the current life situation. Search for things to be grateful for in the situation and in any outside or related situation. This will point you to the positive attraction setting. You will attract what you desire, a Law of Attraction Relationship instead of its opposite. Test it out for yourself. Isn’t it time you had everything you wanted?